SERVICES
01.
1:1 Therapy
& Mentoring
A confidential and compassionate space to explore your sexuality, relationships, and emotional life. Lua works with adults who wish to reconnect with desire, heal from sexual trauma, navigate intimacy challenges, or cultivate a more embodied and pleasurable relationship with themselves. Sessions are offered online and in person (Auckland), in English or Portuguese.
- 50 minutes
02.
Intimacy &
Repair for Couples
For couples who want to rebuild connection, communicate more openly, or rediscover pleasure together. Lua supports partners in understanding their emotional and erotic dynamics, fostering safety, curiosity, and empathy. This work integrates therapeutic dialogue, somatic awareness, and pleasure-focused frameworks to help couples repair trust and renew intimacy.
- 90 minutes
03.
Workshops
Lua facilitates in-person and online workshops on themes such as desire, body awareness, communication, and sexual well-being. Her group work combines education, reflection, and embodied practice, creating spaces where learning feels both safe and transformative.
04.
Talks &
Lectures
Lua is available for guest lectures, panels, and educational events on sexuality, gender, pleasure, and relationships. Her presentations weave academic insight, clinical experience, and creative language to inspire open, evidence-based, and compassionate conversations about intimacy and the body.
FAQs
What can I expect from a session with you?
Each session is a confidential, grounded space where we follow what you bring – your questions, your stories, your longings, and the places that feel tender or unclear. My approach integrates therapeutic dialogue, somatic awareness, and a sex-positive perspective. We move at your pace, exploring your inner world with honesty, care, and curiosity.
Is this therapy, coaching, or mentoring?
My work sits at the intersection of all three. I draw from psychotherapy studies, sex education, somatic practices, and over a decade of working with individuals, couples, and groups. Sessions are therapeutic in nature – focused on depth, meaning, and long-term change – while also offering practical tools and education when helpful.
Who do you work with?
I work with adults of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures. My practice is LGBTQIA+ affirming and grounded in respect, inclusion, and cultural sensitivity.
Do you work with couples?
Yes. I support couples who want to understand their relational patterns, rebuild connection, navigate desire differences, or repair after difficult periods. We work on emotional intimacy, communication, erotic connection, and the shared meaning that brought you together.
Is it normal to feel nervous before the first session?
Completely. Talking about sex, desire, or relationships can feel vulnerable. Most clients arrive unsure of where to begin – that’s welcome. My job is to create a space where you can arrive exactly as you are and take your time to find your words.
Do you only work with sexual issues?
No. Sexuality is one part of our emotional and relational life, but not the only one. Many people come to me to explore emotional patterns, boundaries, relationships, communication, self-esteem, confidence, or a desire for deeper connection with themselves and others. Sex may be part of the conversation – or not. We follow what feels most important to you.
Can I come even if nothing is “wrong,” but I want more from life?
Absolutely. You don’t need a crisis to seek support. This work can be a space for self-discovery, growth, and a deeper connection with yourself and others – expanding your capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and authenticity in all areas of life.
Do you work online or in person?
Both. I offer online sessions (in English or Portuguese) and in-person sessions in Auckland.
Can I see you if I’ve experienced sexual trauma?
Yes. I am trauma-informed and have supported many clients healing from sexual trauma. I will always work at your pace and with your consent. If at any point I feel you would benefit from specialised mental-health support, I will discuss this gently and ethically with you.
How many sessions will I need?
This depends on your goals. Some people come for short-term support (6-8 sessions), while others choose deeper, ongoing work. We can discuss what feels right for you in your first session.
What are your fees and cancellation policy?
Fees vary according to session type (individual or couples). Full details are provided when booking. Sessions cancelled with less than 24 hours’ notice are charged in full, as the time is reserved specifically for you.
How do I book a session?
You can contact me through the website form or by email. I’ll reply with available times and next steps.
Are you a registered psychotherapist in New Zealand?
Not currently. Most of my qualifications and postgraduate training were completed in Brazil, where I built my background in sexuality, somatics and positive psychology. Because these credentials were obtained outside New Zealand, I am not registered with PBANZ.
I work within my scope as a sex and relationship expert, and if you would benefit from support from a registered psychotherapist or another mental-health professional, I will guide you toward appropriate options.
01.
1:1 Therapy & Mentoring
A confidential and compassionate space to explore your sexuality, relationships, and emotional life. Lua works with adults who wish to reconnect with desire, heal from sexual trauma, navigate intimacy challenges, or cultivate a more embodied and pleasurable relationship with themselves. Sessions are offered online and in person (Auckland), in English or Portuguese.
02.
Intimacy & Repair for Couples
For couples who want to rebuild connection, communicate more openly, or rediscover pleasure together. Lua supports partners in understanding their emotional and erotic dynamics, fostering safety, curiosity, and empathy. This work integrates therapeutic dialogue, somatic awareness, and pleasure-focused frameworks to help couples repair trust and renew intimacy.
03.
Workshops
Lua facilitates in-person and online workshops on themes such as desire, body awareness, communication, and sexual well-being. Her group work combines education, reflection, and embodied practice, creating spaces where learning feels both safe and transformative.
04.
Talks & Lectures
Lua is available for guest lectures, panels, and educational events on sexuality, gender, pleasure, and relationships. Her presentations weave academic insight, clinical experience, and creative language to inspire open, evidence-based, and compassionate conversations about intimacy and the body.
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